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Hypnotherapists and burnout by Michael O'Sullivan |
I can still be surprised to discover how few therapists fail
to practice self-hypnosis. Therapists above all others
should know the huge advantages of doing so. The old saying
about practising what you preach has never been more
relevant.
Lets face it. As therapists we have a duty to look after
ourselves. Not only for our own good, but for the good of
the people we come into contact with as well. I have
assisted many therapists who have run into difficulty
because of their work. In many cases this has involved
burnout due to the fact that simple precautions were not
observed.
When a therapist fails to take steps to protect themselves
when they are working with people, then they run the very
real risk of taking other peoples problems on board. It is
all too easy for us to become the centre of our own small
world due to the nature of our work. As a result it is
possible to miss or fail to recognise the warning signs that
something may be amiss.
In discussion with therapists who have come to me for
assistance, many have stated that they knew that something
was going awry, but they did not know what to do about it.
Unfortunately it is not just the victim of burnout who
suffers. A certain amount of strain is placed on their
relationships, both personal and social. Lets not forget
also that uniquely in therapeutic circles there can be a
very unsympathetic attitude towards therapists who become
the victims of burnout. I have heard the cutting remark
more than once that obviously these people should not have
been in practice in the first place. Such is the stigma. I
think this has more to do with the wish to put them at a
distance. I wouldn't be surprised if this was due to an
un-admitted fear that the same thing may one day happen to
them.
None of us are immune to burnout is we don't watch out for
it. The important thing is, how do we go about avoiding, or
minimising problems for ourselves ? Obviously prevention is
better than the alternative.
There are notable exceptions but in the main those
therapists who have consulted me had never been advised of
the following key points. In order to function as a capable
and effective therapist you must first of all have resolved
any personal difficulties of your own. There is nothing
less desirable for a client than a therapist who became
involved in the work for the wrong reasons. The wrong
reasons in this case being the belief that by helping others
you don't have to worry about your own problems. Of course
this belief is held at an unconscious level, and this
therapist will not be aware of what they are doing until
they burn out. And believe me, they will. Usually very
quickly.
Once you have resolved your own problems, then you have a
very strong emotional base to work from. This is vital when
it comes to offering support and comfort. It will
definitely put you in a better position to do a good job for
your clients.
The importance of this first point can't be overstated.
Copyright Michael O'Sullivan 2009 - all
rights reserved
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